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In this post, you will find strategies to break free from cycles of indecision and low motivation, transforming how you approach choices. Through the lens of neuroscience and the practices of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), we will embark on a short transformative journey to unlock the magic within our minds and harness the power of our chemistry for a more fulfilling life in a journey of choices that shape who we are. Join me as we explore these decisions and learn to navigate your desires with confidence and clarity.
Dopamine is crucial in shaping how we make decisions and evaluate various options. Often referred to as the "feel-good" hormone or "reward" chemical, dopamine significantly motivates us to pursue choices that yield positive results. When we consider options, the anticipation of rewards triggers dopamine release, influencing our preferences. For instance, when faced with a decision between a meal or a project, the potential for pleasure or satisfaction from either option engages the brain's dopamine pathways. This chemical reaction enhances our enjoyment of our choices and guides us toward options that align with our values and goals.

Moreover, dopamine plays a significant role in reinforcing certain behaviours. Positive outcomes from previous choices can create a stronger tendency to repeat those decisions in the future, thanks to dopamine. When we experience rewards from our choices, dopamine encourages us to make similar choices again, boosting our motivation. On the flip side, low dopamine levels can complicate the decision-making process. A lack of this neurotransmitter may leave individuals indifferent or unmotivated, making it challenging to choose and leading to a cycle of indecision that diminishes their overall satisfaction.


Find a comfortable, quiet environment, then sit or lie relaxed.
Take several deep breaths, inhaling deeply through your nose, holding it briefly, and exhaling slowly through your mouth. Continue this for about five breaths, which can help you feel calmer and more present.
Focus on a specific goal or area where you desire increased motivation, whether in your career, health, better relationships, or personal development.
1. Close your eyes and imagine a version of yourself five years into the future while seeing yourself. Picture in detail what you look like, what you're wearing, where you are, and what you're doing.
2. Imagine the feelings associated with achieving your goals. How does your life look? How do you feel? Engage your senses—what do you see, hear, and feel?
1. In your visualisation, approach your future self. Think about the qualities they embody, their decisions, and the hurdles they've overcome.
2. Ask your future self these questions:
- What steps did I take to get here?
- What habits have I developed?
- What mindset changes helped me to achieve my goals?
Listen to your future self's responses. Note any insights or advice they share. Your subconscious mind is providing you with clarity and motivation.
Gradually bring your awareness back to the Present. Count from one to five, feeling yourself become more alert with each count. When you reach five, open your eyes.
Take a moment to jot down the insights you gained from your future self. Write down specific steps, habits, or mindsets you can implement now to move closer to that vision.
Based on your insights, create an actionable plan for the next week. Identify small, manageable steps to help you feel motivated and progress toward your goals.
Set aside time each week to revisit this exercise. Visualise your future self again, adjusting your goals as you progress and gain new insights. Remember, staying connected to your vision can be a powerful motivator for change!
